Monday, October 21, 2024

DONALD TRUMP, RELATABLE FUCKUP?

We continue to be told that young men are backing Donald Trump while young women prefer Kamala Harris. A new Washington Post poll of battleground states has numbers:
The gender gap between the candidates amounts to 14 percentage points.... The divide is largest among younger voters, with women under age 30 favoring Harris by 20 points while men under 30 favor Trump by 15 points.
That's a 35-point gender gap.

A New York Times op-ed by pollster John Della Volpe offers the usual reasons for this:
Today’s young men are lonelier than ever.... Men under 30 are nearly twice as likely to be single as women their same age; Gen Z men are less likely to enroll in college or the work force than previous generations. They have higher rates of suicide....

Mr. Trump has tapped these anxieties by weaving a hypermasculine message of strength and defiance....

His playbook? A master class in bro-whispering: championing crypto, securing the endorsement of Dave Portnoy — the unapologetically offensive founder of Barstool Sports — and giving U.F.C. President Dana White, who embodies the alpha-male archetype that appeals to many young men, a prime spot at the Republican National Convention. Mr. Trump has also cultivated relationships with simpatico comedians, pranksters, influencers and Silicon Valley billionaires like Elon Musk — all while his team bombards podcasts and social media with misinformation and memes to rally his troops.
But doesn't Trump sometimes seem like a guy who doesn't know what he's talking about? Hasn't he said and done many things that seem ridiculous or baffling? "They're eating the dogs"? The town hall that turned into a DJ set, with Trump doing his awful two-fisted dancing? The Arnold Palmer penis story?

I think young men find Trump's campaign-trail lapses relatable. It's not just that they might really believe Haitians in America are eating people's pets, or might enjoy Trump's smutty anecdotes. I think they also might notice that Trump is being accused of campaign incompetence or dementia -- and that endears him more to them.

After all, many of them were diagnosed with ADHD because they couldn't sit still in school or stop disrupting class. They might not like Trump's taste in music, but they can relate to someone who shows up and just doesn't feel like doing the work.

They appreciate the way Trump suggests that he not only can solve all the world's problems, but can do it quickly and easily -- he conveys a sense that he can succeed at many things without doing any hard work. That's what they want to do!

Why are young men attending college at lower rates than young women? Aren't they attending the same schools as their sisters? Being good in school has always been seen as weird and unmanly by most Americans, and I think that mindset is having a greater and greater impact on young men's choices. Boys with good grades are seen as weird losers and not very masculine -- they're like girls, who are allowed to be good in school. It's much cooler to be an amusing fuckup.

When we express horror at Trump's latest baffling act on the campaign trail, I think we sound, to these young men, like annoyingly responsible scolds. Obviously, they like Trump's offensive humor because they like offending people, but they also relate to Trump's refusal to restrain his speech because trying to avoid giving offense to people is hard work. It's almost like schoolwork, and the same people are good at it, for the same reasons -- because they're grade-grubbing goody-goodies who seem to like spoiling everyone else's fun.

Trump is not trying to spoil their fun. Trump isn't trying to make them work hard or think hard about anything. And Trump seems to fuck up a lot, although he doesn't think he's done anything wrong. They like that. They relate to that.

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