There has never been a shortage of ... vile, open bigots among the ranks of conservatives and Republicans. What is Trump’s value-add? What is the true, necrotised heart of his appeal?Some of this is gendered brutality. Cross cites the case of a pro-Trump Texas man who shot and killed his adult daughter during an argument about the president, as well as the murder of Renee Good:
What he sells his legions of followers that no other Republican could was impunity.
Trump’s fans live vicariously through him, and it inspires imitation. They marvel at how he creates Content by never backing down, never apologising, always pushing the envelope with ever more offensive statements. He is the unbannable poster they aspire to be. For his wealthiest backers, the Epstein Class and lesser aspirants, he has been the surest guardian of the immunity they see as a birthright. In either case, Trump’s brand is impunity and the fans want some for themselves.
Yes, he is indeed the Everything is Gender president, but that means nothing unless you can be a violent misogynist and also get away with it. One wonders if that thought lurked somewhere in Kris Harrison’s mind as he waved a gun at his mouthy daughter, or in the mind of Jonathan Ross as he fired four shots at a woman he called a “fucking bitch” as she lay dying. For them, Trumpism did not just put the gun in their hands: the promise of Trump’s immunity to accountability induced them to pull the trigger.Trump and his underlings are also selling the fantasy that you can act like a young man with no responsibilities all the time and get away with it.
— Carl Quintanilla (@carlquintanilla.bsky.social) February 23, 2026 at 6:12 AM
(In addition to Robert Kennedy Jr. exercising with Kid Rock, Pete Hegseth letting out a war whoop in a gym, and Kash Patel partying with the gold-medal Olympic hockey team, we have Kristi Noem's totalitarian cosplay, which, on the surface, doesn't seem like a male fantasy. But she's trying to be the archetypal guy's girl, in the totalitarian version.)
Cross's essay made me think about a Peggy Noonan column published in 2001, a month after 9/11. Noonan wrote:
... men are back. A certain style of manliness is once again being honored and celebrated in our country since Sept. 11. You might say it suddenly emerged from the rubble of the past quarter century, and emerged when a certain kind of man came forth to get our great country out of the fix it was in.I don't think that's what "we" were experiencing at that moment, but if it was, it didn't last. Life stateside went more or less back to a pre-9/11 normal. The wars President Bush started became quagmires. And dick-swinging dudes in the world of finance crashed the economy in 2008.
I am speaking of masculine men, men who push things and pull things and haul things and build things, men who charge up the stairs in a hundred pounds of gear and tell everyone else where to go to be safe. Men who are welders, who do construction, men who are cops and firemen. They are all of them, one way or another, the men who put the fire out, the men who are digging the rubble out, and the men who will build whatever takes its place.
And their style is back in style. We are experiencing a new respect for their old-fashioned masculinity, a new respect for physical courage, for strength and for the willingness to use both for the good of others.
Noonan had a peculiar view of masculinity:
... you know what follows manliness? The gentleman. The return of manliness will bring a return of gentlemanliness, for a simple reason: masculine men are almost by definition gentlemen. Example: If you’re a woman and you go to a faculty meeting at an Ivy League University you’ll have to fight with a male intellectual for a chair, but I assure you that if you go to a Knights of Columbus Hall, the men inside (cops, firemen, insurance agents) will rise to offer you a seat. Because they are manly men, and gentlemen.In fact, as we learned on January 24, a cop will respond to a woman who's criticizing him by shoving her into a snowbank. A skinny, left-leaning male nurse will reach out his hand to help her up, the cop will shoot him, and then not allow the woman -- an EMT -- to come to his aid even as he's dying.
That's the kind of manliness Americans wanted -- or at least the Americans who live in red states and districts, the ones who control our politics even though they're a minority of the population. They wanted men who are immature, brutal, and completely unaccountable. Trump gave them what they wanted.




